Well, I like a girl and she likes me. But… she doesnt want to go out till next year when school starts again. What I am afraid of is that she would start to like someone else over the summer. It’s freaking me out and I don’t know what to do. And, I kinda of like her best friend, but I don’t know if I do or not. And I know if I asked her best friend out, that would break up their friendship. So, I am so confused and don’t know what to do. Can anyone help me out??
stay where u are right now… don’t get to into it see how it plays out
Hey monkeyboy I had that same problem with a girl before… earlier this year (we’re BF/GF now lol)… If you really like this girl, and also somewhat like her best friend, I say stick with the main girl you like… Well it’s totally up to you, really. Also if you’re afraid of her to start to not like you over the summer, how about like keeping in touch with her… That’s make her think about you more often, and she’s like you more for that… Hope that helped a little bit… I’m not the best with advice lol
Well if you like the girl then ask her out but since she doesnt wanna go out till next year get her phone number and talk to her as offten as possible. Not like call every minute. but call a few times a day. thats what i did. And about her friend, keep it as that just friends. If you and the girl you like right now dont get together and it dont work out, see if the other girl is still available, i know it sounds cruel but its not.
yea calling is good, but if you dont want to talk to her (or just have nothing to say) then txt msg her cuz ur still talkin to her
1 more thing that culd help is if u dont have a 6 pak get1 cuz for some reason girls like them(why idk)
And another thing. Have confidence in yourself. Cause girls love confidence. Also dont act like your desprat to get into a relationship. PLay it cool. Dont let thenm know what your really thinking
I know it can be (if all fails which I hope not) tough but nolty got over with it and so can you ( hope it will never never never never never never never never never never never x1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 to the 9999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999th power happen to you)
but be prepared
Thanks for the advice guys! And BTW, I do talk to her on the phone almost every day. Well not every day, but you get the picture. She has decided to go out with me so it’s all good.
talking on the phone is better than text messaging because she gets to hear the real you not read pixels which have no feeling in them. If you are short on words or topics ask her what she wants to talk about hopefully she will come up with something. And legandmail i havent gotten over the fact that my first love doesnt love me back.
ok i got that
congrats on the girl! and nolty, the best thing i can say to you right now
is a famous saying that goes:
“time heals all wounds”
so dont completely break down
and if music cheers you up listen to greenday or sublime
Thanks guys! It sorta helped, just a little though. But thanks for trying to help anyways! You guys are pretty cool .